Oriona’s Keep It or Kill It

Your weekly style gut-check — to sharpen your taste, not just your wardrobe.

May 04, 2025

💥 This Week’s Dilemma

You know that piece. The one you had to have. The one you imagined would transform your outfits, maybe even your whole vibe. And yet… it’s still hanging in your closet, unworn, quietly making you feel guilty.

Today, we’re going to fix that.

✅ 1. The Spark Test (Why Did You Want It?)

Stop. Don’t even touch the hanger.
Ask yourself:
→ What was the moment that made you want this?
→ Were you craving power, playfulness, edge, softness, sophistication?

STYLE TRUTH: We don’t just buy clothes; we buy feelings. Name the feeling. That’s your starting point.

✅ 2. The Mirror Check (Is It Really You?)

Time to hold up a mirror, not literally, but emotionally.
→ Would you wear this on a random Tuesday when nobody’s watching?
→ Does it fit three moments in your actual week, not just some fantasy life in your head?

STYLE TRUTH: You are not dressing an imaginary version of yourself. You are dressing you.

✅ 3. The Remix Rule (Can It Play with Others?)

Your challenge:
→ Style this piece three different ways using only what you already own.
→ If you need to buy more to make it work… is it really adding value?

STYLE TRUTH: Great pieces unlock what’s already in your wardrobe. They don’t demand a whole new supporting cast.

✅ 4. The Mood Match (What’s the Contrast?)

If you’re stuck, flip the vibe:
→ Too sweet? Add toughness.
→ Too edgy? Add softness.
→ Too serious? Add play.

STYLE TRUTH: Contrast creates magic. It’s the quickest way to make something feel intentional and personal.

✅ 5. The Cut Test (Why Haven’t You Worn It?)

Be honest:
→ Why hasn’t this made it out the door?
→ Is it fit, comfort, confidence or just a mismatch for your life?

STYLE TRUTH: You’re not its babysitter. If it’s not working, release it back to the wild.

✅ 6. The Style Map (What’s Your Style, Really?)

Every decision you make sharpens your style clarity.
→ What did this piece teach you about what you actually want?
→ How does this refine your eye for what’s next?

STYLE TRUTH: Your closet is your lab. Every win or mistake moves you closer to your true style.

Send me your Keep It or Kill It dilemma, I might break it down in next week’s issue.

Until next time,
Oriona x